Don't be the person who gets what she THINKS she can get. Be the person who gets EXACTLY what she wants. How can you do that? You need to know EXACTLY what you want. You need to get clear on your goals. You need to know what fuels your soul. You need to trust the universe so implicitly that it becomes second nature. By having all of this in place - it will allow you to leap into the void with arms and legs outstretched with ease. When you show up in your own life - you become engaged - you know what to ask for and you will get what you want.